Wednesday, October 1, 2025

Technology is causing us to lose the run of ourselves

This week’s column in The Kerryman newspaper.

Michael Commane

Over the last few weeks there has been talk in the media about the misbehaviour of people in public.


A woman in her mid-80s described on RTE’s Liveline how on a crowded bus no one stood up to offer her a seat. Though dare I, from my own experience, comment that I often see older people behaving in an aggressive and entitled manner.


Some weeks ago journalist Justine McCarthy wrote in her weekly column in The Irish Times on how as a nation being rude is the latest trend in town. She argued that because of automation there is less need for us to engage with one another in our daily lives. How right she is.


When I first saw a self-service checkout in a supermarket I was surprised. Guess what, these days when buying my groceries I head automatically to the self-service checkout. And really that’s something of a contradiction for me. 


Automation means we have no verbal interaction with anyone in the shop and today most self-service checkouts don’t accept cash, which means we don’t get to feel, see or touch the money that pays for our purchase.


Most businesses now use automatic telephone answering; it’s even used by pharmacies and GPs. 


Again, no real human interaction. And if we have the patience to wait on the phone, three, four, maybe even 10 minutes to speak to a human voice, we are at that stage irritated and frustrated, so it is easy for us to launch into an attack on the unfortunate person with whom we eventually speak.


Last week I called Luas to report a school bag I found at a tram stop. After three attempts and zillions of automated replies I managed to speak to a human voice, but it was not Luas, it was Transport for Ireland.


I discovered in order to get through to any transport company, your call is directed firstly to Transport for Ireland. What nonsense.


It seems it’s not economical for us to talk to real people when we want to engage with most services today. That means we are losing the naturalness and spontaneity in ordinary, everyday conversation.


We are now using phones from dawn to dusk. And that really struck me last week when I saw an adult, presumably a parent, with two young children, talking on the phone and not a word between them and their children.


One day cycling on a busy street in Dublin, half in jest, half seriously, I rang my bell at a man who was walking across the street looking in the other direction. As soon as he saw me he shouted: ‘F-off’.


Last Thursday evening RTE’s Prime Time reported on the dramatic increase in antisocial behaviour across the country. We saw shocking incidences of vandalism. There was a call for more gardaí on our streets, experts were tracing the increasing bad behaviour back to the Covid crisis.

Might it be that because of our great strides in technology we are losing some of the most important characteristics of what it means to be human?


It seems we are constantly on the edge of being frustrated, which can easily lead us to lashing out.

Speak to people with a kind word.

Tuesday, September 30, 2025

It seems Pope Leo never said these words

The link: https://youtu.be/IulIY6CIVRE?si=wyXjt9apCgABePJM is available on YouTube.  But there appears to be no mention of it on the Vatican website and the words and sentiment don’t seem to fit  with the views  and style of Pope Leo.

It is a comment on the death of Charlie Kirk purported to be the words of Pope Leo.

We live in extremely worrying times.

Dimitri Shostakovich

Dimitri Shostakovich, Piano Concerto No 2

https://youtu.be/1DFqVqApms8?si=8cG4tlJgn1QS_d2n

Take a moment out and listen to this; it never fails.

Shostakovich fell out of favour with Stalin. Some days after Stalin had attended a Shostakovich  concert in Moscow, from

Dimitri Shostakovich
which he walked out, Shostakovich was told to report to a state official. He was left waiting two/three hours when someone asked him why was he waiting. Shostakovich told him he was told to report to see a commissar. The passing man told him to go home as the commissar had earlier been executed on the orders of Stalin. Shostakovich’s life had been spared.

The composer wrote the famous music played at the Siege of Leningradit is his Symphony No. 7, also known as the "Leningrad Symphony". This powerful piece was dedicated to the city of Leningrad and its people's endurance during the long and brutal German siege of the city during World War II.  

Dimitri Shostakovich died on August 9, 1975 

Monday, September 29, 2025

Free visits to the zoo come with elephant-style baggage

Half listening to the radio or reading an item in the print media I thought I read that old age pensioners were now able to visit the zoo free of charge.

But when you read the small print it’s not at all as simple as that.

Firstly, it only applies from September 26 to October 3 during Positive Ageing Week. But there are many other hoops one has to jump, that is if one can still jump.

In anyone’s language it comes close to a respectable scam. Or maybe it is the conditions below are confusing.


The so-called free entry is valid for visitors aged 65 and over, provided they purchase a full-price adult or child ticket at the gate. How to claim free entry:

  1. Confirm the dates: The offer is valid from Friday, September 26, to Friday, October 3, 2025. 
  2. Purchase a full-price ticket: You must buy a full-price adult or child ticket at the gate. 
  3. Show your identification: Present your ID to verify your age (65+) when purchasing your ticket at the gate. 
  4. Visit the Zoo: Enjoy your free visit to Dublin Zoo. 

Sunday, September 28, 2025

Newspaper article on synodality has little to say

Is much of the talk about synodality pie-in-sky? Has the word to be used by every high-ranking cleric to prove he’s watching his career?

A recent Catholic newspaper gave three pages to synodality. The three pages could easily have been synopsised in  some few short sentences.

The article included a picture of a number of people, including Cardinal Mario Grech, secretary general of the synod of bishops, who was in Ireland last week. The picture named only one person in the caption and that was Cardinal Grech. A former editor of The Star newspaper, Ger Colleran would never allow a picture to appear in a newspaper without all names mentioned.

It’s always the small things that give us away; that caption told its own story of how real synodality means to so many people in the church. Something else, right through the three pages, the word church was consistently spelt with an upper case C, how synodal is that?

Reading the article one was forced to ask what relevance it had to anyone who has lost interest in the Catholic Church, those who have been hurt and alienated by its priests and functionaries.


Saturday, September 27, 2025

IDF snipers are blind to the humanity of their victims

To my shame I have come late to reading Mark O’Connell. The piece below is his column in The Irish Times ofSaturday, September 20.

Reading it one is forced to say, yes, of course, how correct these words are. The column brings the reader directly into her/his own soul and how we should react when we directly see the face on another person.


Mark O'Connell

There’s a moment at about the mid-point of Tolstoy’s War and Peace, where Nikolai Rostov – a young and avidly patriotic aristocrat, serving as a hussar in Tsar Alexander’s army during the Napoleonic wars – advances bravely against a French officer in the chaos of battle.

Taken unawares by the horse-mounted charge, the Frenchman is flung from his own horse, and is left fatally vulnerable to Rostov’s sword. Rostov pauses a moment before moving to kill the enemy soldier, and in that moment something changes: the thrill of battle suddenly drains away, and with it any sense of moral legitimacy to the act he is about to commit.

“He was terrified,” writes Tolstoy of the fallen French soldier, “wincing from immediate expectation of another blow, and he looked up at Rostov, recoiling in horror. This pale, mud-stained face of a fair-haired young man with a dimple on his chin and bright blue eyes had no business with battlefields; it was not the face of an enemy; it was a domestic, indoor face.”

Rather than being killed, the Frenchman is taken as a prisoner of war by Rostov’s regiment. Rostov himself, despite being awarded a medal for his supposed bravery in battle, is gripped by a deep and somewhat mysterious shame. He had glimpsed this young Frenchman’s terrified face – his domestic, indoor face, with its bright blue eyes and its dimpled chin – and had come within a heartbeat of killing him.

Face-to-face encounter

Had he not been so close to him, had he slashed him with his sword from behind, the Frenchman would have remained “the enemy”, and he would have killed him, because it is easier to kill an abstraction than a man.

It was the face-to-face encounter that saved the Frenchman, and that prevented Rostov from killing him.

This moment, at the heart of Tolstoy’s sprawling and morally questioning work of fiction, is one that I have found myself thinking about a lot recently.

Obviously, warfare has changed a great deal since the Napoleonic wars of the early 19th century, and since Tolstoy wrote about their effect on Russian aristocratic society some 50 years later.

There are no more horse-mounted regiments, and no more swords, just as there are no more Russian aristocrats.

Increasingly, the business of killing is carried out at a technological remove, a distance that permits radical extremes of abstraction. The AI kill-chain algorithm does not see a pale, mud-stained face; it sees only a target.

A contemporary Nikolai Rostov would not be charging into battle on his horse; he would likely be sitting in a windowless room in a hardened control station somewhere in occupied Donetsk, operating a strike drone as it hovers over a Ukrainian army position.

But just as there was a great deal of killing from a distance during the Napoleonic wars (the battle scenes in War and Peace are thick with the smoke of cannon fire), there remain many situations in contemporary warfare in which the enemy must be encountered head-on.

The sniper, for instance, kills from a distance, but in such a way as he must glimpse the face of his target, and must surely risk glimpsing their humanity.

Last week saw the publication of a five-month investigative report by a number of media outlets – among them The Guardian, Der Spiegel, and Arab Reporters for Investigative Journalism – detailing the killing by Israel Defense Forces (IDF) snipers of four members of a Palestinian family in a single day in November 2023. An article in the Guardian names two of the snipers.

‘My first elimination’

The article details a recording of one, an American, watching footage of the killings, and speaking to an undercover journalist.

“That was my first elimination,” he says, referring to the death of the Palestinian teenager Salem Doghmosh, whom he shot while he was trying to retrieve a body. “It’s hard for me to understand why he [did that]”, the sniper says, “and also it doesn’t really interest me. I mean, what was so important about that corpse?”

What was so important about that corpse was that it was the body of his older brother, Mohammed.

According to the Guardian report, the sniper acknowledges that his 19-year old victim was unarmed.

He says: “They’re thinking: ‘Oh I don’t think I’ll get shot because I’m wearing civilian clothes and I am not carrying a weapon and all that, but they were wrong. That’s what you have snipers for.”

After Salem was shot to death, his 51-year-old father, Montasser Doghmosh, attempted to retrieve the bodies of his two sons. In the recording, as he approaches the bodies of his dead sons, he is heard to repeat the words “My boys, my boys.” He too, is fatally shot by IDF snipers.

Evidence of war crimes

International law explicitly prohibits attacking unarmed people, and people who are retrieving bodies.

The footage of these killings, and the soldier’s recorded account of them, appear to be evidence of war crimes. Almost as much as his actions, the soldier’s language demonstrates the extent to which he is blinded to the humanity of the people he killed.

In War and Peace, the intractable shame experienced by Nikolai Rostov in the wake of his encounter with the unhorsed French officer has, partly, to do with his sense of his failure to live up to the requirements of the battlefield. He feels shame both because he has come so close to killing the other man, and because he is rendered morally incapable of doing so by the recognition, in the glimpse of his “domestic” face, of his humanity.

His own humanity is at odds with the ideal of the warrior.

He cannot kill the Frenchman, because he has seen his face, and recognised in it the life of a fellow human. The Lithuanian-French philosopher Emmanuel Levinas, who served in the French army during the second World War – and who, as a Jew, avoided the extermination camps as a captured prisoner of war – located the face-to-face encounter between humans as the foundation of ethics.

For Levinas, the face of another human being, in its nakedness and vulnerability, embodies the primary and foundational command of human relations and of morality: thou shalt not kill.

I am not saying here that the American soldier and his fellow IDF snipers would not have killed that Palestinian family if they had seen their faces. What I am saying is that these men had so thoroughly and radically dehumanised their victims that their faces would, on some crucial level, have registered to them only as those of “the enemy”.

And here can be glimpsed a horrible irony at the heart of genocide: it is in the very process of dehumanising their victims that the perpetrators destroy what is left of their own humanity.

Friday, September 26, 2025

Soviet hero who saved the world in 1983

 On this day, September 26, 1983 Soviet Air Force officer Stanislav Petrov identified a report of an incoming nuclear missile as a computer error and not an American first strike, thus preventing a nuclear war.

What if that happened today and there were no Stanislav Petrov in the room?

Thursday, September 25, 2025

Pope Leo invites men of different views to his table

The link below is well worth a read. It’s from the National Catholic Reporter.

Pope Leo held private audiences with two figures emblematic of opposing poles within US Catholicism: Cardinal Raymond Burke, a prominent Francis critic who denounced synodality as a threat to the integrity of the church, and Jesuit priest James Martin, an advocate for LGBTQ+ inclusion in the church whose ministry with LGBTQ+ outreach received repeated signs of support from Francis. 

Pope Leo's interview with a Vatican journalist provides insight into how he sees his role as pope: a bridge-builder, engaging but uncontroversial, and acting as an astute administrator.

 https://www.ncronline.org/node/311641

Wednesday, September 24, 2025

Former Dominican priest Brian Horgan dies

Former Dominican priest,

Brian Horgan, far right, 1965/‘66
Brian Horgan died in Tallaght University Hospital this morning.

Brian was ordained a priest in 1972. He resigned from priesthood some few short years after ordination and spent his working life as a probation officer, and played a leading role in the trade union movement.

His brother Denys, was also a Dominican priest, he too resigned from priesthood and is now living in the US.

Brian was born in Dublin in July 1947. 

May Brian rest in peace. 

It’s our money that pays for the visit and weapons

This week’s column in The Kerryman newspaper.


Michael Commane

The state visit of President Donald Trump to our neighbouring island last week was a spectacle to behold. Watching some of the television coverage of the banquet in Windsor Castle I could not believe the length of the dining table where the great and mighty were sitting.


Early estimates of Trump’s visit suggest it cost €8 million. It’s said it will bring in billions for the UK economy. And of course Trump loved every minute of it.


How much did it cost to ferry him, Melania and the gigantic entourage across the Atlantic to eat soup in Windsor Castle and at Chequers?


Rumour has it that Vladimir Putin is the wealthiest man in the world. What must be the wealth of XI Jinping, the Chinese leader and then all the sheiks in the Middle East?


It seems the world is awash with money, at least for the rich and powerful.


But isn’t it all absurd and what’s even more absurd is how we accept the absurdity.


Think of the money that is spent on armaments every year. Last year the world spent €2.7 trillion on weapons. One B2 Spirit bomber costs over €1.7 billion. One F-111 US fighter jet costs a mere €15.33 million. Remember all the fuss whether or not the West should give them to Ukraine. That sort of money is beyond my understanding.


But what’s not beyond my understanding is the crass poverty of over a billion people in the world. And what is also not beyond my understanding, is that every cent spent on State dinners and every cent spent on armaments comes from the pockets of the taxpayer, you and me, and from people far poorer than we.


Nothing is simple, everything in our lives is nuanced and there are so many sides to every story, it would be only a fool who thinks that everything is black and white. But right now our world seems to be heading towards some sort of cataclysmic moment; there is some sort of rush for the rich to get richer, companies to get bigger and bigger, countries to develop faster and better weapons of war. And then there’s AI. How is it going to stop, who can stop it?


Maybe by nature I’m a pessimist and see the glass half empty rather than half full.


Where are the churches in all this confusion and bedlam?


There is a wave of right-wing Christian fundamentalism developing in America that is saying horrific things. People believe Trump is a man sent by God, that it was God who saved him against the assassination attempt.


Last week the cardinal archbishop of New York, Timothy Dolan compared Charlie Kirk with St Paul. Is the cardinal aware of some of the vile words spoken by Kirk?


New Pope Leo seems to be a wise and good man; he has spoken about the importance of peace and cooperation.


I’m back thinking of the meal at Windsor and the savagery being unleashed on the people of Gaza and Ukraine; Trump a herald sent from God. 


And every cent of the wealth comes from our pockets. Why do we let them do it? Strange times indeed. The sad thing is, we always do.

Tuesday, September 23, 2025

Two US bishops with different style - Alleluia

From Bishop Robert Barron.

What do the  US bishops think of this man? What does Bishop Barron think of President’s Trump’s words of hate and how he calls for the suspect to receive the death penalty? Was the bishop ‘moved’ by President Trump’s nasty words? Was that too a ‘rich spirituality’?

Robert Barron must be the world’s leading peripatetic bishop. Is he ever in his diocese?

Blase Cupich, cardinal archbishop of Chicago writes on his X account: "The Second Amendment did not come down from Sinai. The right to bear arms will never be more important than human life. Our children have rights too. And our elected officials have a moral duty to protect them.” Heartening to see there are other voices in the US episcopacy.

From Bishop Robert Barron: "Friends, what a rich, spiritually enlivening experience it was to attend Charlie Kirk’s memorial service in Phoenix, Arizona. 

"I was moved to hear often the name of Jesus on the lips of our government officials, and most especially by Erika Kirk granting forgiveness to the man who killed her husband—Christ’s call to love our enemies on display.

"Let us continue to pray for Erika, Charlie, and all those gathered to honour his legacy."

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Monday, September 22, 2025

Why I’ve finally had enough of other people’s rudeness

Justine McCarthy’s Friday column in The Irish Times. It makes great sense. Her point about how we are losing the practice of speaking to people on a day-to-day basis is interesting; we can now check out our groceries without one word, all done on at a self-service machine. And then our obsession with mobile phones. Thank you Justine. 


The shop was a suburban Dublin mecca for stylish women with money to spare. The customer had the sheen of social polish.

“Have you got these in a size seven?” she enquired, taking a shoe from the shelf.

“I’ll just go and check,” answered the smiling assistant, returning a short while later with an apology. “I’m really sorry, but we don’t have any left in size seven.”

The customer leapt from the seat where she had been waiting. “Now you tell me, after I’ve taken off my shoes,” she blasted, flinging the display shoe still in her hand with such fury it went bouncing across the floor. She stormed out of the shop. The young assistant made a hasty retreat, too – into a back room where nobody would see her crying.

It was just another day in the life of Rude Ireland.

Retail and hospitality workers could fill the National Library with stories about customers’ bad manners. “They keep talking on their phones while they’re paying for something,” said one. “Sometimes, I have to wait three or four minutes before they finish the call so I can talk to them.”

Teachers tell of children as young as five and six grabbing, demanding, back- answering and never uttering a “please” or a “thank you”. Letter-writers to The Irish Times complain about public transport users bashing them with their backpacks, occupying adjoining seats with their bags and thus forcing other passengers to stand, and playing loud audio on their phones.

An entire symphony of letters recently complained about theatre-goers’ phones lighting up during performances in darkened auditoriums. Bad manners have become a contagion. Some argue it is Covid’s legacy, but I suspect it is the hallmark of the Celtic Tiger Mark II.

On last Monday’s Liveline on RTÉ Radio 1, Anne, 82 and unsteadied by the after-effects of a stroke, recounted boarding a packed bus in south Dublin last Saturday and being forced to stand, gripping two bars to stay upright. Nobody offered her a seat. She got kicked in the leg and hit on the shoulders in the scrum.

“My son said I should have said: ‘Hello, I’m 82 years of age and I’ve had a stroke, could somebody give me a seat?’ And shame them into it.” She said she might try that the next time. Anne, think again.

Last straw

On the same day Anne was on the bus, I walked to the grocery shop along a narrow footpath, only wide enough to accommodate two people and skirting a road of sprinting cars. A pair of women came towards me, walking two abreast. They never broke their stride, seeming not to register my existence. Had I not flattened myself against the wall, they may well have impelled me into the traffic.

I proceeded on my way, berating myself for having said nothing. On arriving at the entrance to the shop, I noticed a young woman wheeling a stroller towards the door, about to leave. I stepped back on to the footpath to let her pass. Now vigilant after the incident on the footpath, I watched her face as she exited. She looked everywhere but at me. Her lips did not move. It was the last straw.

“Excuse me,” I said, “did you see that I stepped back to let you out?”

“Yes,” she replied. “I said thanks.”

“I didn’t hear you.”

We went our separate ways. An everyday encounter that should have been a pleasant moment of human connection had soured the day. But there was more to come. Another customer was waiting for me inside the shop. “Did you see she’s a young mum?” she asked, accusingly. Instead of replying that, obviously I did, it was why I had withdrawn onto the footpath to let her pass, I said: “I’m sick of standing back for people and being ignored.”

“But she’s a young mum,” insisted the equally young woman, before walking away.

Having once been one myself, it was news to me that young mothers are exempt from the normal courtesies. Perhaps it explains some of the impoliteness in their children’s classrooms.

Manners matter. They have nothing to do with snobbishness, social class, etiquette, decorum or knowing whether or not to crook one’s little finger while holding a teacup. Manners are small acts of consideration and opportunities for human connectedness. They are threads of the social fabric, and when they start to unravel there are consequences for society. This is when the personal becomes political.

Rudeness is an expression of disrespect for others. Conducting loud phone calls in a train carriage, letting a shop door swing in a stranger’s face or not acknowledging a thoughtful gesture are microaggressions in an age of growing polarisation. The message they transmit is that my life matters more than yours.

At a recent wedding, two wealthy businessmen talked loudly to one another throughout the speeches, reducing the bride and groom to bit-players. Nobody asked them to be quiet.

Dehumanised terrain

We live in an increasingly impersonal world. You go to the bank, you deal with a machine. You go to the supermarket, you self-checkout at a machine. You go to an airport, you self-check-in at a machine. On buses and trains, in cafes and shops, the most common engagement is no longer with other human beings, but with phones.

In this dehumanised terrain, good manners are interludes for strengthening the bonds that tie us together. Bad manners do the opposite. They breed isolation, mé féinism, division, resentment, self-absorption, individualism and grievance.

I remember interviewing the wise and unostentatious John McGahern at his home in Leitrim while the first Celtic Tiger was on the rampage. He lamented the erosion of good manners, believing them to be the foundation of civil society. They were rooted in empathy, he said.

Ireland’s intimacy is one of its most appealing characteristics. That does not come solely from its small size, but from an innate appetite for finding connections with strangers. “Where are you from? Oh, do you know so-and-so?”

Establishing connections becomes more challenging as the country’s population grows – set to have doubled by 2057 since the mid-1980s. Is a simple “thank you” too high a price to pay to preserve our collective wellbeing?