Former Dominican, Joe Bergin died on Sunday, February 28 in College View Nursing Home, Clones Road, Cavan.Joe grew up in 52/53 Dublin Street, Carlow. He was born on July 29, 1935. He joined the Dominicans in September 1953 and was ordained a priest on July 10, 1960.Joe's family was associated with the newspaper business. Well-known journalist Olivia O'Leary cut her teeth under the tutelage of Joe's uncle on the Carlow Nationalist.
He attended Newbridge College as a boarder before joining the Dominicans and spending his noviciate year in St Mary's Priory, Pope's Quay, Cork.
On completion of his philosophy and theology studies at the Dominican House of Studies in Tallaght he went to UCC, where he obtained a BA degree.
Joe spent his first years of priesthood working in Trinidad, a place he grew to love. Indeed, Trinidad and its people gave him a new and fresh understanding of what it meant to be church. While in Trinidad he made lifelong friends with a number of people.
After his years in Trinidad he returned to his alma mater, Newbridge College.
His gentle manner and kindness made him a great favourite with students in the school. He was a fine teacher.
No past pupil of Joe Bergin will ever say a bad word about him. He was an exemplary senior dean. Joe was a fair man, a quality that young people see and respect very quickly.
From Newbridge he went to St Mary's Priory, Pope's Quay as prior, being elected to the job on two occasions.
He was an excellent preacher and his liturgies were always prayerfully conducted. He made it his business to pray and speak in a language that touched the souls and hearts of those who came to pray in the church.
Joe's interest in music gave him a great introduction to the church choir. In his six years as prior his support for the choir played an important and seminal role in making the choir into what it is today.
At the time another now former Dominican, Fiontán Ó Murchú was choir master and both he and Joe worked closely in the development of the choir.
On completion of his six years in Cork, Joe moved to the Dominican-run St Martin's Parish in Tallaght, where he was parish priest for approximately 10 years.
While there, his elderly mother, with whom he was very devoted, moved to a bungalow across the road from the church, which gave Joe the possibility of keeping a close eye on her.
It was in 1990, while he was in St Martin's, that he decided to leave the Dominicans and resign his priesthood.
He moved to America and married Loreen.
He subsequently became an Episcopalian priest and ministered in Newfoundland, Newark, New Jersey and finally in New York.
On reaching compulsory retirement age Joe continued to help out in a nearby parish.
In 2017 Joe returned to Ireland after the death of his beloved Loreen the previous year.
During his time in America he made regular summer visits to Ireland accompanied by Loreen.
Joe was my prior during my three years while attending UCC.
I have memories of a most gracious man, who had a great and genuine interest in people. He was a man of faith. A gentle soul without a malicious thought in his head.
Joe Bergin was a refined person with a wonderful sense of occasion. He lived in the now and accepted people for where they were and what they were.
Joe began to write a memoir of his years with the
Dominican Order. The text was at such a stage that he was in the process of looking for a publisher. His deteriorating health put paid to the work. No doubt the manuscript is among his belongings.
He had a number of close Dominican friends, who in turn cherished his friendship.
The late Dominican Constantius Bergin (1915 - 1994) was his uncle.
I had the good fortune to meet Joe and Loreen on a number of occasions while they were on holiday in Ireland.
Two years ago I visited him in the nursing home in Cavan. His memory was impaired but the moment I mentioned my name he smiled that infectious smile of his, threw his arms around me and called out in the loudest of voices my name. But on this occasion there was no sign of his pipe. Joe loved smoking his pipe.
A lovely last moment with a gentleman.
May he rest in peace.
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Oh Joe, how loved you were. You were my brother-in-law, my go to scholar on Gilbert and Sullivan, my adviser and so much more. You made my sister so incredibly happy and it makes my heart joyous to know you are together again. You will continue to teach me about the love I have to give. You have touched so many, many hundreds if not thousands of people to value the gift of life. May you rest peacefully my sweet Bergin. You will always be in my heart, and even though it’s broken for now, it will heal with all your words of comfort and love inside of it. I love you. Travel well Sweet Prince. - Jennifer Lee
Pictures. On the day of Joe's priestly ordination. From left: Katherine Parry (Nee Bergin) Bridie Bergin (Mollie’s sister) Fr Constantius Pat Bergin OP, PC Bergin, (Joe’s father) Eithne Shubotham (Nee Bergin) Joe Bergin, Mollie Bergin (Joe’s Mother) Sheila Kelly (Nee Bergin) and Dr Joe Kelly.
The single picture was taken in recent times.